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Our next Social Support Evening is

FRIDAY September 10th

Our Sixth Birthday

Trust that you are all keeping well, and that you are now looking forward to our next  Social Support Evening, at our usual venue, From 7:30 pm till 11 pm.

It was a rather a rainy evening for our August evening, but it didn't seem to dampen any spirits at all as all those attending seemed to enjoy themselves, which is what it is all about.

It was nice to see a good turnout despite it being Friday 13th!!.

It was great to welcome, Jo, Andrew, Jenny and Anita on their first visit to us.

Also good to see Sharon and Katherine from Boston Borough Council come a chat with us all about local services and our needs!

If there is any urgent information about our Social Support Meetings then it will be put up on the front page of our website, so please always do check just before leaving home to come to us, just to be on the safe side.

Keep smiling  and we hope that we see you all again at our next social support evenings, tucked away in our own small corner of the Lincolnshire countryside!

Thank you to those of you that use "EasyFundraising" on the Internet, we have just received our fourth cheque now.

A big Thank you to "Auntie Annie" for the gifts for the raffle.

A big "Thank You"  for the recent donation to Boston Belles from Erin.

 

Recently I have been in correspondence with Vicky at Grimsby about an LGBT group being set up there, and was so very touched to receive the following comment, extracted from her email  " i'm sorry that your health isn't so good, but pleased in a way your bowing down a little in your work, take pride belinda in what you have achieved, in the years you have done so much, and are a very respected member of the trans community ! it's time to take easy .""

Thank you Vicky, it is nice to be appreciated..

 

Job Vacancies

Please note that we are now receiving notices of employment vacancies from a number of organisation seeking to recruit. These are being listed at the Jobs section of the site and updated as soon as any new information is received

 

HATE CRIME REPORTING

There is now a section of our site devoted to Hate Crime Reporting with a link to the Dedicated Transgender  reporting site " http://www.tcrime.net/ run by Gires.

Unless we report all instances of Hate Crime and Hate Incidents, there will never be any action to stop them happening, many in the Trans Community are working very hard to give us the protection that we deserve, but without the reporting of the incidents we have little evidence to prove that we need the protections that we seek.

We have ensured that we are taken seriously when reporting these incidents, and the Home Office are putting the Transgender Hate Crime as a first priority this  year with the Police, who are instructed to deliver on this.

So please make use of the reporting systems.

Later this year the Lincolnshire Hate Crime reporting System will be launched.

SURVEY

There is now being carried out a countywide survey of LGBT people to see what services are needed for our community, so PLEASE go to

 http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/lgbt2010   or

indirectly through the JUST Lincolnshire website (www.justlincolnshire.org.uk) on the Sexual orientation and Transgender pages.

And complete the survey, survey is now live on line, and will run for 12 weeks (until 20th November).

it is totally anonymous.

 

Value & Respect.

We seek to be valued as the unique individuals that we are, not as other people think we ought to be!

Your committee would like to thank everyone who comes along and supports us and those of you that are supporting all the work that we do, wherever we are doing it.

 

A Totally Free Confidential Support Service for all our members.

We are here to support anyone, that may have any problems connected with their transgenderism. If you or your family need any help, advice and peer support in relation to transgenderism, then it is available by just asking, telephoning, e-mailing or arranging a face to face meeting. It is a totally confidential service, and any information is treated with the utmost discretion, It is also a totally free service, but , of course, any donation, however large or small to our funds, is always very much appreciated, and is never refused.

 

Community Corner

Please do let us have your views for our newsletter. If you have any information or tit-bits that you think will be of interest to others, please let us know so it can appear in this, our monthly newsletter.

 

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BOSTON COMMUNITY SHOWCASE

Boston Central Park

Sunday 12th September

10am - 4pm

Over 100 Community and Voluntary Group Stalls

Live Bands and Entertainment including...

Boston Youth Jazz Orchestra

FREE Arts, Crafts, Family Games and Activities

Food Court

Dance Workshops (Cheerleading, Morris Dancing and Salsa)

Drama Recitals, Circus Skills

www.bostonshowcase.co.uk

 

Come and visit our stand

BOSTON BELLES

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Lincolnshire Kaleidoscope

At last! Important changes at Kaleidoscope!

We achieved what we set out to do in 2006 – bringing LGBT issues to

virtually all the Lincolnshire local authorities and statutory agencies,

sponsoring Lincoln Pride 2010 – and now integrating LGBT Equality.

As reported previously, our Trustees have been key in setting up

Just Lincolnshire, the new Equality & Human Rights Council

(currently chaired by David Millar)

But we know that a Forum is not the ideal format for everyone. The

future is good - Just Lincolnshire will be handling the new LGBT

Survey – first ever in our County. Now the Trans community are

recognised in their own right – and Boston Belles continues - we

need new people to come forward and carry on supporting,

campaigning and developing a fairer society for LGB`s.

Volunteer training by professional LGB ( and T) workers is available

and there are many ideas across the County already being talked

about; David is meeting the new gay MP for Grantham & Stamford,

Nick Boles, in September and a new Hate Crime reporting Strategy

is being launched in Lincoln on Oct 1st.

If you would like to be involved, to comment, volunteer or set up

events, let us know and we will put your name forward to Just

Lincolnshire in confidence, Otherwise your Kaleidoscope Yahoo

group membership expires at the end of September You can email

our new Chief Executive paul.elliot@justlincolnshire.gov.uk or ring

outgoing Kaleidoscope Chair David Millar direct on 07762 156885.

For those who supported the early Forums - many thanks! Watch

out for the Survey and a further announcement on this via

Kaleidoscope and on www.justlincolnshire.org.uk There`s never been

a better time to come forward!

David, Belinda, Stacey.

 

Do you fit this??

Hi Belinda,

I'm a freelance journalist specialising human interest features primarily for women's magazines.

I'm currently looking for case studies for a feature aimed at Cosmopolitan and Grazia magazines focussing on the affect of gender 
reassignment on families.

To that end I'm interested in speaking to women aged between 25 - 45  with a parent who has undergone gender reassignment. The feature would 
focus in on her journey to understanding and acceptance of the situation. Case studies must agree to be photographed but, taking into 
account the sensitive nature of the issue,  interviewees would be free to review the copy prior to publication.

I can be contacted on 020 8931 1954 and please don't hesitate to call for more details.

I have been in touch before but as you can see I'm still on the look out for the right case study!

Best,

Paula Robinson

I have just been asked to pass this e-mail on to all our members, please read and respond if you are affected.

From: GIRES GIRES [mailto:giresley@gmail.com]
Sent: 28 July 2010 17:01
To: info@gires.org.uk
Subject: News from GIRES - MacMillan Nurses

 MacMillan Nurses are seeking to gather the experiences of individuals from minority groups - including transgender - during treatment for cancer.

Please pass this e-mail on to any trans person you know who is or has been a cancer sufferer.  Any trans people who are willing to provide information about how they were treated can send their contact details to Amy (see below). The project will involve:

- An interview (approximately 1 hour)
- A focus group (approximately 2 hours)
- Filling in a survey (20 minutes)

MacMillan can pay travel expenses to help cover costs for taking part. Anyone interested, or who would like to know more, should please get in touch with Amy Wilkins on:
Tel.: 0121 456 7403
Email:
amyw@brap.org.uk

 

 

An e-mail from Jodie at The BOUDOIR

We are now booking in girls for this year’s fabulous Rose’s Harmony Weekend at Mattock Baths on the weekend of Friday 29th to Sunday 31st October 2010.

The usual format applies, we will arrive at the hotel on Friday lunchtime to get ready to start your makeovers late afternoon for the Friday night Halloween-themed party. There will be a sumptuous three course meal followed by a disco and then you can fall into bed and get a good night’s sleep before rising bright and early for the day’s activities throughout the Saturday.

These can range from make up demonstrations to manicures and beauty treatments as well as a market place in one of the function rooms selling just about everything tranny. There are also optional excursions organised by Rose’s team, one to a fashion show with TG Models at nearby the Masson Mills Shopping Centre
http://www.massonmills.co.uk/Shopping-Village.html and the other to a 12th century manor house called Haddon Hall http://www.haddonhall.co.uk, which has been the setting for several costume dramas both on film and television.

Saturday afternoon we will begin makeovers in our special make up room that is given to us for the weekend. Saturday night is of course the time for fabulous Miss Rose Beauty Pageant after another delicious three course meal.  Then there will be a raffle of some excellent prizes followed by another disco till the early hours. 

Sunday, we will all travel home to recover and look forward to next year!!

This really is a fabulous event where you get the chance to dress for the whole weekend if you want to. You don’t even have to leave the hotel!!  In the past we have found that everyone really bonds and comes back to London on a real high!! Martine Rose and her team work really hard to put this weekend together for the TG community and she does so with a good heart. 

The rooms are all twin rooms so you will be sharing with another Boudette. If there is someone you would particularly like to share with, please let me know.

The cost of the weekend is £375. This includes two makeovers and nails, your dinner Friday and Saturday night, your breakfast on Saturday and Sunday mornings plus your two nights accommodation. 

A 50% deposit to guarantee your place on this trip will be required with full payment being made before the event date. This is a very popular trip so you will need to let me know as soon as you can if you would like to attend. 

You can call me on 020 8211 1666 or email
info@theboudoironline.com to book your place.  The places for this trip are very limited so we do need your booking and deposit ASAP.

Best wishes

Jodie Lynn


 

What we do

We are always working very hard behind the scenes, on your behalf, to see that the needs of the Transgendered community are not overlooked; we have been represented on all of the following organisations, in many cases right from their inception stages.

Independent Advisory Group (Critical Friends to the Police)

 Lincolnshire Kaleidoscope

Hate Crime Scrutiny Panel (Critical Friends to the Criminal Justice System)

South Lincolnshire Community and Voluntary Services

Equality & Diversity Group of the Boston Area Partnership, as well as the

Boston Area Partnership itself.

JUST Lincolnshire

Boston Community Showcase Partnership

Lincolnshire Compact

 

Have you seen these websites, go have a look!

http://www.wigsnmakeup4men.co.uk/

http://www.justlincolnshire.org.uk/

http://www.tcrime.net/

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/lgbt2010 

http://www.transmediawatch.org.uk

 

Mannequins

To assist you with your feminine looks, Polly offers, Make-up Artistry (styling, advice & lessons), Spray Tanning, a full Grooming and Male Waxing service, Nails & Skin Care. I can help you with Deportment & Dress Styles. Massage, Reflexology and De-stress Management is also available.

Privacy and Confidentiality absolutely guaranteed with every client, in all consultations and appointments at a private Lincolnshire studio location.

All work is undertaken by an experienced professional, qualified and insured Beautician & Therapist.

It is a non-sexual service. Photography can also be undertaken for you.

To chat through your requirements and book appointments,

please contact Polly  on 07504 516 672.

That is all folks!, anyway, for this month.

Hope to see you all at our usual venue

Keep happy and Safe.

Belinda XX

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Our Sixth Birthday




 
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